Hateration- Do not waste your time on it.

I noticed the vast majority of people who visit this site, (via keywords), are seeking information in regards to "toxicity in relationships", "frenemies", and dealing with it. I think it is very unfortunate since in my opinion, many Christians and teens can not handle the immature and foolish actions of their peers.

I think majority of individuals who are focused on progress, are christians, and individuals who significantly changed their life for the better, gain followers who have intense hateration towards them.

I've experienced hateration. I have been lied on, had damaging things said about me by people who I have not seen in many years and even people that I do not know. If you are experiencing this know that a lot of people go through these things at one point throughout their life.

So here are my tips to handle hateration:

1. Work one million times harder to achieve whatever goal I am trying to pursue. Do not allow the haters to distract you.
2. Keep major plans to yourself. I seek advice from wise individuals who are able to help me to reach my goals. I learned to hide my dreams in my heart until it is actually coming into fruition. (Proverbs 12:23)
3. God told us that we will have haters and that during these times we would have people who: are despisers of those who are good, false accusers, slanderous, and brutal. (2 Timothy 3: 1-4). God tells us to have nothing to do with those people.
False accusers= liars. Slanderous=defamation. Brutal= cruel.
3. Out of sight, Out of mind. God spoke about individuals who mock, lie, and laugh at (imagined or real) misfortune. God said people who do such things are fools and to stay away from them.
4. I learned that God speaks to me in a few ways. I learned I had to get much stronger and to make certain that I have good friendships around me. No Frenemies, No confusion, and no pettiness. I also learned I have to be much stronger. God says in Proverbs 24:10, "If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength." If someone is talking negatively about you, it is what it is just talk. You falter, when you allow the negative talk, gossip, or lies, affect what you do.
5. Know that you are much better than people who do that. Do not try to get even with people who do that. I truly believe that haters= trashy (in their behavior). So don't be act like a hater always be classy.

Life is way too short, please do not allow anyone to take away your peace of mind and your joy! Do not waste time on those individuals!

TIME IS YOUR MOST VALUABLE ASSET!
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